THE ART OF LYING
Since ancient times, falsehood or lying, lying, man has always accompanied, in particular, it was that you lied about everything and that there is a particular field.
In fact, you can lie to work, with friends, parents, lovers, lying so much that can happen, many introjected this behavior and turn it into their art. In a journal of psychology, Mind & Brain "was published an article that sought to learn more.
Interesting but well known for some time, is the news that men are inclined to exaggerate the number of their sexual conquests, while some recent research shows that women tend to reduce the number of their experiences.
Clearly the consequences of these statements, both men and women are social. He tends to push his manhood would otherwise be excluded, while the woman is forced to deflate any sexual encounters, it could be classified as such by social terms. In any case, it would seem that neither of them can share their verità.Questo is a small example that can hide something deeper.
If you mind about the number of fans can continue to lie to a lot of other things. You can lie by omission and through the subtleties of beating about the bush. Sometimes we shed crocodile tears, we simulate the pleasures of the flesh and launch fake smiles, even managing to wish "good day" to those who do not go right down.
lied then turns out to be a small part of the vast repertoire of deception umano.Nel book asks a question: "Why lie?" The answer given is: "Because it works." It was found that it helps to lie, and lie to ourselves helps us to accept our behavior fraudulent, lying helps us make the simplest social interactions, to manipulate others and make friends.
few years ago, Feldman has shown that adolescents are more popular than even good at cheating peers. Lie continues to run, and although it would be counterproductive always lie, cheat often and well continues to be a master key to social success, professional and economico.Ironicamente said the same publication, the main reason why we are so good at deceiving others, is that we are good at lying to ourselves. Although we are often ready to accuse others of lying, we forget about in a surprising way of our duplicity. The scams we have been victims are branded in our memories, but lies are slipping from our lips so easily that often do not recognize them for what they are.
What is important to ask is whether this has negative consequences on us and on society. It is true that there are advantages in lying, but these benefits actually improve our lives? And especially if there are people who tell lies, there should be people who believe such bugie.Alcuni studies have shown that a person who lies can be detected by the tone of voice, the more dilated pupils, often tends to avoid the look with your eyes and stiffens.
Without the signals continue to find the liar, the thing that stands out is that when you lie, your body does not seem to agree and in fact is not in tune with what we say. Lying, surely it is easier to say the truth, but certainly the consequence is that we move more and more from our Io.Infatti lying to the other door to lie to ourselves.
How we can discover something about us when we first deceive us? Maybe not interested in knowing why we are anxious or depressed or have panic attacks or sexual dysfunction. But surely, sooner or later with everything we have to make us accounts mainly because the body does not mente.Forse in our history we have met people who have lied and why we have brought a pain. Maybe, just maybe, the need to continue to believe the lies and therefore also to the promises, illusions and the desire to recover an affection that was missing.
"I tell lies to others because it will suffer less and accept lies from others so you do not suffer." Even if in fact discovered the deception continues to suffer. Try to tell the truth in the most difficult of his life and accept the consequences can help us feel better and make us feel stronger.